Tullian Tchividjian
is big news this week. In case you are unfamiliar he is the grandson
of world renown evangelist Billy Graham. He is also well known in
Evangelical circles as the pastor of a thriving megachurch, Coral
Ridge Presbyterian Church in Florida. The founder of the church, D.
James Kennedy was pastor from the founding in 1960 until his death in
2007. Dr. Kennedy was well known for his involvement in politics and
he leaned quite heavily to the right.
Tullian Tchividjian
has stayed away from politics during his short tenure at Coral Ridge
but has been a rising start in the Evangelical publishing world. He
has put out multiple books that have proved very popular, published
multiple articles on well known Christian blogs, conducted radio
interviews and been a popular conference speaker. And he recently confessed to cheating on his wife and thus disqualifying himself from being a minister so he resigned.
But this little
post is not about Tullian, and in case your wondering, and I know you
are, it's pronounced “cha-vi-jin”. This post is about the idea
of faithfulness. Have you, have you ever really, ever really ever
been faithful to anything, anyone, any idea, or any concept of any
kind for any length of time?
Think about it
before you answer. And let's preclude what your being faithful to
right now, at this moment. Let's dredge the lake and take a look
see.
Relationships? Oh
you're married? Ever have a boyfriend/girlfriend? So you've never
been faithful to that relationship have you? Let's not jump to
conclusions and say it's bad or good. Is it a reality? Sit with
that for a moment.
What about….oh
let's pick a big one, what about your faith? Have you always been
faithful to it? Is it important that you are? Has your faith ever
become lost or unfruitful? Have you ever cheated your faith by
considering the idea of abandoning it?
I suppose one might
say that relationships and faith are not static things but are
nuanced and subject to change, like the ebb and flow of a river.
Increasing at times to a roar and rush of rapid tides and at other
times barely a trickle over some mossy rocks. But then we must ask
ourselves how closely are we measuring this thing called faithfulness
and how much leeway are we giving?
I don't think there
is any doubt that we frown on a man, never mind a pastor, cheating on
his wife (or the fact that she reportedly cheated on him initially).
We decry the lack of faithfulness. But perhaps we should pull the
log out before we examine the speck. Perhaps we should take a peek
through our own list of dreams and responsibilities and see if we
have done them their due service.
“Everything is
going to be ok”
How do you know?
“I don't but it
just helps sometimes to say it.” –--Jermaine Clement, People,
Places, Things.
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